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The future of senior living may depend less on new buildings and amenities and more on whether the industry is willing to rethink culture, autonomy and the resident experience itself. In this episode of Varsity’s Roundtable Talk, Derek sits down with Steve Moran, founder and publisher of Senior Living Foresight, one of the industry’s most influential media platforms.

Known for his candid commentary and sharp observations, Moran has spent years challenging operators to rethink leadership, culture, transparency and the overall resident experience. Derek and Steve discuss why the industry may have more of a culture crisis than a staffing crisis, how operators can better empower residents and families and why storytelling may be the key to changing perceptions of senior living for future generations.

Check out the full episode here.

WHAT’S THE REAL STORY IN SENIOR LIVING RIGHT NOW THAT PEOPLE AREN’T TALKING ABOUT ENOUGH?

As you know, we have great occupancy. We’ve had the best occupancy that we have ever had in my lifetime. And that’s really, really good news. What’s interesting to me, there are two things that are really interesting to me. The first is that when I talk to operators and leaders, there seems to be a sense of apprehension or fear like, ‘This is really good, but it feels like disaster is just around the corner.’ Probably some of that’s from the COVID hangover.

The other thing is we have operators who are just crushing it at huge margins and huge occupancies, while there are still some people out there that are really, really struggling. So much of it comes down to the operator and how they run their business because it can be super successful or really, really tough.”

ARE SENIOR LIVING COMMUNITIES TRULY ALIGNED WITH WHAT TODAY’S OLDER ADULT WANTS?

There’s this widespread belief that baby boomers are going to want something very different. I think there are a few things, but mostly as we get older, we’re going to want the same things people have always wanted.

Part of the biggest problem is that if we’re honest about the industry, senior living is still the last resort. I choose senior living when I can no longer live at home. That might mean I don’t want to take care of my yard anymore, I don’t want to cook or grocery shop anymore or it might mean I have real care needs. I’m not sure the industry is fully aligned with what people actually want because too often the focus is on providing the least amount of service at the lowest cost to maximize margins.

WHAT ARE OPERATORS DOING WELL RIGHT NOW — AND WHAT ARE THEY STILL GETTING WRONG?

I think operators are getting dining pretty right. They understand that dining is one place they touch residents’ lives three times a day. I think transportation is improving too and communities are building better physical spaces.

But I think they’re still not giving residents enough control over their own lives. I heard from a resident recently who said they were thrilled because residents had finally won the ability to choose what channel played on the TV behind the bar four days a week. And I’m thinking, this shouldn’t even be a battle. Those are the kinds of things I think we’re still getting wrong.

IS THE WORKFORCE CRISIS REALLY A STAFFING PROBLEM?

I don’t think we have a real staffing crisis. I think we have a culture crisis.

As long as there are people willing to work at McDonald’s, Taco Bell and Starbucks, we don’t have a staffing shortage. We have organizations that haven’t created cultures where people feel valued, appreciated and connected to purpose.

When you create a great work environment where people feel like they’re changing lives and love coming to work every day, they tell their friends about it. Goodwin House gets something like 900 applications a month. They hire the best people and the rest go elsewhere. That tells me the problem isn’t a lack of workers. It’s culture.

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The following is a guest blog entry from Larry Carlson. Larry is an advisor, board member, and author of Avandell: Reimagining the Dementia Experience. A longtime CEO in senior living, he now writes and speaks about helping older adults finish strong — living with purpose, vitality, and impact in their third age.

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It’s Monday morning. The numbers came in late Friday.

They’re down. Again. Not dramatically. Not enough to cause alarm. But enough to feel it.

She’s already run through the explanations in her head. Seasonality. Market shifts. Increased competition. All true.

None of it changes the number.

She walks into the conference room a few minutes early. The team will be in soon—sales, operations, nursing. They’ll be looking to her for direction. For tone. She knows what the conversation needs to cover.

Leads. Conversions. Follow-up. Urgency.

She also knows something else. What gets said in this room today won’t just shape the next 30 days. It will shape the culture. Because under pressure, something subtle begins to happen.

Standards start to bend. Language starts to shift. Decisions get made a little faster, and a little differently.

Not all at once. But enough. And for a moment, there’s a choice. When occupancy drops, the real risk isn’t the number. It’s what leaders are willing to trade to fix it. Because census pressure doesn’t just test your strategy. It reveals your culture.

Maybe you’ve been in a room like that.

In my experience, there are three places where that shows up most clearly.

Early Warning Signs – When culture starts to slip

Culture rarely breaks all at once. It erodes quietly. A phrase here. A decision there. A moment that doesn’t quite sit right—but gets rationalized and moved past.

Language begins to change. Residents become “units.” Move-ins become “wins.” Conversations become more about pace than people.

High performers—especially in sales—may begin to get a little more latitude. Not intentionally. But because the pressure to produce is real. And slowly, what was once non-negotiable starts to feel… flexible.

The challenge is that none of this looks like a problem in isolation. But over time, it becomes the culture.

TRY THIS: 

Before your next leadership meeting, ask yourself—and your team:

“What have we started tolerating in the past 30 days that we wouldn’t have accepted before?”

Don’t rush past the answers. That’s where culture is either being protected… or traded.

Decision-Making Under Pressure – Where values get tested

Most organizations don’t abandon their values. They just begin to reinterpret them under pressure. The conversation shifts.

“This is what we believe… but in this case…”

“We wouldn’t normally do this… but given where we are…”

And often, the decision itself doesn’t feel dramatic. It feels reasonable. Necessary, even. That’s what makes it dangerous. Because culture isn’t shaped by the decisions you’re proud of. It’s shaped by the ones you justify.

Pressure doesn’t create values conflict. It exposes it. And in those moments, leadership isn’t about having the right answer. It’s about having the discipline to pause long enough to see what’s at stake.

TRY THIS: 

Before making a key decision, ask:

“If this decision became visible to every team member, would it strengthen trust… or weaken it?”

You may still make the same call. But you’ll make it consciously.

Communication – Setting tone without creating fear

When census is down, teams don’t just look for direction. They look for signals. What matters now? What’s changing? What’s not?

Some leaders respond by increasing pressure. More urgency. More accountability. More focus on the number. Others go the opposite direction—softening the message, trying to protect morale by minimizing the reality. Neither approach builds trust.

Because your team already knows. They see the numbers. They feel the shift. What they need isn’t spin. They need clarity—and steadiness.

The ability to say: Yes, this matters. Yes, we feel it. And no, it doesn’t change who we are. That’s what anchors a team. Not the absence of pressure. But the presence of leadership within it.

TRY THIS: 

In your next team communication, name both sides clearly:

  • The reality you’re facing
  • The values that won’t change because of it

Say it out loud. And then live it in the decisions that follow.

In that Monday morning meeting, the numbers will get discussed. They should. Plans will be made. Expectations clarified. But something else is happening at the same time. Your team is watching. Not just for direction. For signals.

What matters now? What’s negotiable? Who are we under pressure?

And over time, those signals become your culture. Not because you declared it. But because you led it, especially when it was hardest to do so.

Everybody in senior living is talking about the workforce crisis. Fewer people entering caregiving. more older adults needing support, rising pressure on operators, care teams and families. But underneath all of those conversations is a reality the industry can’t avoid anymore: the future of caregiving and the future of immigration are becoming increasingly connected. 

For many organizations, this is no longer just a policy conversation. It’s a people conversation, a culture conversation and ultimately a care delivery conversation.

That topic drove a powerful discussion during Varsity’s quarterly Executive Roundtable last week where we were joined by Rob Liebreich, President & CEO of Goodwin Living, and Lindsay Hutter, Chief Strategy & Marketing Officer at Goodwin Living. Together, they shared how Goodwin Living is approaching immigration advocacy, workforce development and employee support at a time when caregiver demand continues to outpace supply across the country. 

Said Lindsay during the presentation, “If we as a nation didn’t welcome global workers, we would not have the hearts, the heads and the hands to care for the older adults when they are at that stage of living.”

Their conversation explored the emotional realities facing immigrant caregivers, why advocacy has strengthened trust inside their organization and how older adults themselves are emerging as important voices in the workforce conversation. Below are a few Fresh Perspectives from their discussion. 

CAREGIVING IS A WORKFORCE MATH PROBLEM, NOT JUST A POLICY DEBATE

As the caregiver support ratio continues to shrink, senior living organizations are confronting a simple reality: there are not enough caregivers to meet growing demand. Immigration is increasingly tied to workforce sustainability and long-term care access.

IMMIGRANT CAREGIVERS BRING CULTURAL INTELLIGENCE, NOT JUST LABOR

Many immigrant caregivers come from multigenerational households where caring for older adults is deeply ingrained. That lived experience often translates into stronger patience, empathy and attentiveness in caregiving environments, challenging the misconception that these roles are simply “jobs people take.”

ADVOCACY BUILDS INTERNAL TRUST AS MUCH AS EXTERNAL AWARENESS

Goodwin Living’s public stance around immigration and workforce issues strengthened loyalty and engagement among employees because team members saw leadership actively standing behind them. Values-driven advocacy became a culture-building strategy, even though that was never the original intention.

OLDER ADULTS ARE EMERGING AS A POWERFUL ADVOCACY VOICE

Residents and older adults are becoming active participants in workforce conversations because they directly understand what caregiver shortages mean for their quality of life. Efforts like the “Seniors Care for Caregivers” campaign demonstrate how resident voices can influence public awareness and policymaker attention.

THE MOST EFFECTIVE WORKFORCE STRATEGIES ARE LONG-TERM INVESTMENTS

Competitive wages alone are not enough. Organizations are pairing living wages with leadership development, continuing education, retirement benefits and mentorship programs to create long-term career pathways and improve retention across caregiving roles.

Download Goodwin Living’s Citizenship Program Playbook for practical insights on supporting immigrant team members, strengthening workforce stability and building long-term caregiving pathways inside your organization.

Senior living’s biggest opportunity may not be occupancy or operations. It may be human connection. The communities people truly want to be part of are the ones built around trust, culture, communication and meaningful relationships for both residents and families.

That was a major theme during a recent conversation on Varsity’s weekly Roundtable featuring Steve Moran, publisher of Senior Living Foresight and one of the industry’s most recognized voices on senior living culture, workforce challenges and innovation. During a candid Q&A, Steve shared what the industry is overlooking, where operators are getting it right (and wrong) and what senior living must do to better align with the expectations of a new generation of older adults. Below are a few Fresh Perspectives from the discussion.

CULTURE, NOT STAFFING, IS THE REAL CHALLENGE

The communities winning on workforce aren’t magically finding more people, they’re building cultures where employees actually want to stay, grow and feel valued.

FAMILY EXPERIENCE IS THE NEXT BIG OPPORTUNITY

Senior living often focuses heavily on residents while overlooking the emotional and logistical burden carried by families. Communities that intentionally support caregivers will build deeper trust and loyalty.

CONNECTION IS THE MOST UNDERSERVED NEED IN SENIOR LIVING

The biggest differentiator may not be amenities or programming, but helping residents and families form real friendships and meaningful human relationships.

TRANSPARENCY BUILDS TRUST, EVEN WHEN THINGS GO WRONG

Families don’t expect perfection. They expect honesty. Communities that communicate openly about challenges, mistakes and solutions create stronger long-term trust.

SENIOR LIVING MUST BECOME MORE ASPIRATIONAL

Most people still move into senior living as a last resort. The future belongs to communities that people choose earlier for lifestyle, purpose, connection and belonging.

LONGEVITY ISN’T ENOUGH WITHOUT QUALITY OF LIFE

The industry has become better at extending life, but it still struggles with how to support emotional well-being, cognition and purpose as people age.

THE WINNERS WILL PRIORITIZE PEOPLE OVER MARGINS

The most successful organizations over the next decade will be the ones known for exceptional care, communication, trust and human connection, not just operational efficiency.

KEY QUESTIONS

What is the biggest challenge facing senior living today?

While staffing shortages often dominate the conversation, Steve Moran argues the bigger issue is culture. Communities that create supportive, engaging workplace environments are often the ones attracting and retaining strong team members.

Why is family engagement becoming more important in senior living?

Families play a major role in the senior living experience, emotionally, financially and logistically. Communities that communicate well and intentionally support caregivers can build stronger trust, loyalty and long-term relationships.

How can senior living communities create stronger human connection?

The most impactful communities help residents and families build authentic relationships and friendships, not just participate in activities or events. Social connection may become one of the industry’s biggest differentiators moving forward.

What will define the most successful senior living communities in the future?

According to Steve Moran, the organizations that thrive long term will prioritize exceptional care, transparency, communication and human connection over simply focusing on operational efficiency and margins.

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The following is a guest blog entry from Larry Carlson. Larry is an advisor, board member, and author of Avandell: Reimagining the Dementia Experience. A longtime CEO in senior living, he now writes and speaks about helping older adults finish strong — living with purpose, vitality, and impact in their third age.

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It’s early. Just after sunrise.

The household is quiet, except for the soft hum of the coffee machine in the corner and the faint sound of a television no one is really watching.

She’s kneeling beside him. He’s confused again. Agitated. Asking for his wife—who passed years ago. His voice rising, his hands restless, searching for something he can’t name.

She doesn’t correct him.
She doesn’t rush him.
She places her hand gently over his and leans in just enough for him to see her eyes.

“Tell me about her.”

He pauses.

The tension in his shoulders softens. And for a moment, the room changes. He’s no longer lost. He’s remembering. And she stays right there with him—unhurried, present, steady. Not because it’s in her job description. But because it’s in her.

She didn’t learn that in orientation. She brought it with her.

The question is… did we hire for it?
Do we recognize it?
Do we protect it?
Do we build around it?

Because mission doesn’t live on the wall. It lives—or dies—in moments like that. In my experience, there are four places where that happens.

HIRING

If you don’t hire for mission, you won’t lead with mission. Too often, we hire for experience and hope for alignment. But the deeper question is whether the person sitting across from you already carries the heart your mission requires.

TRY THIS: Add one question to your interview process tied directly to your values: “Tell me about a time you chose people over efficiency.”

You’re not just listening for the answer. You’re listening for the instinct.

RECOGNITION

What you celebrate becomes your culture. If that moment in the household goes unnoticed, it slowly becomes optional. If it’s named and honored, it becomes the standard others move toward.

TRY THIS: In your next team meeting, recognize one team member specifically for how they lived out a core value, not just what they accomplished. Make the invisible visible.

ACCOUNTABILITY

Values that aren’t reinforced aren’t values—they’re preferences. The hard part of leadership isn’t writing values. It’s protecting them when they’re inconvenient.

TRY THIS: When addressing a performance issue, name the value being missed—not just the behavior. It changes the conversation from correction to alignment. From “what you did wrong” to “who we are.”

DECISION MAKING

Your hardest decisions reveal your real values. Strategy, budgets, census pressure—these are the moments when values are most at risk of becoming negotiable.

TRY THIS: Before making a key decision, ask: “Which of our values does this support—and which might it compromise?”

You may still make the same decision. But you’ll make it consciously.

Mission is not sustained by intention. It’s sustained by repetition—what you hire for, what you recognize, what you reinforce, and how you decide.

And over time, something begins to happen.

Those quiet, early-morning moments—the ones no one sees, no one measures, no one reports on—they become the culture. Not because you declared it. But because you built it.

Workforces rarely move in neat generational lines. Most organizations today include boomers approaching retirement, Gen X leaders balancing stability and innovation, millennials shaping culture and Gen Z bringing new expectations about flexibility, purpose and technology. Understanding how those perspectives intersect is becoming increasingly important for senior living organizations trying to recruit, retain and lead multigenerational teams.

That was the focus of a recent conversation on Varsity’s weekly Roundtable, where Jennifer Smith, Ph.D., of the Mather Institute shared insights from Year 3 of the Gen Xperience Study, a five-year research series examining how Gen X compares with other generations in the workplace. Below are a few Fresh Perspectives from her discussion.

GEN X IS THE WORKPLACE BRIDGE GENERATION

Gen X often lands in the middle of generational trends. They value stability like boomers but are comfortable with technology like younger workers. That positioning makes them a natural bridge between residents who may be less comfortable with tech and younger colleagues who are quick to adopt tools like AI.

RETENTION ISN’T JUST ABOUT PAY ANYMORE

Compensation still matters most, but flexibility, autonomy and job security increasingly shape whether employees stay. Gen Z is especially focused on control over how they work, while Gen X prioritizes stability. Organizations that balance both will be better positioned to retain a multigenerational workforce.

LONELINESS IS A RETENTION ISSUE, NOT JUST A WELLNESS ISSUE

Employees who feel more isolated at work report lower job satisfaction and shorter plans to stay with their employer. Even though average loneliness levels were moderate, the connection between belonging and retention suggests that building workplace community isn’t optional, it’s a workforce strategy.

MISSION IS A RECRUITING ADVANTAGE

Younger generations increasingly want employers to make a positive social or environmental impact. For mission-driven senior living organizations, clearly communicating how the work improves lives can be a powerful differentiator when recruiting and retaining talent.

AI ADOPTION IS MOVING FAST, BUT TRUST IS LAGGING

Generative AI is already widely used in the workplace, especially among millennials. But Gen X and Gen Z show more caution, recognizing its benefits while still questioning the reliability of its outputs. Adoption may depend as much on building trust as on the technology itself.

WELLNESS EXPECTATIONS ARE EXPANDING

Younger workers increasingly expect employers to support not just physical health but emotional, social and mental well-being. At the same time, older generations are also broadening their definition of wellness. That shift signals that holistic wellness programs will only grow more important across the workforce.

Varsity’s Roundtable is a weekly virtual gathering of senior living marketers and leaders from across the nation. For updates about future weekly Roundtable gatherings, submit your name and email address here.

Last week, Varsity’s Roundtable was Live from Greystone’s Sales Adventure and featured  John Spooner, Co-CEO of Greystone, and Melissa Heiss, Regional Sales Manager. As guests on Varsity’s weekly Roundtable, John and Melissa shared candid insights on what it takes to build high-performing sales teams and drive sustained interest in today’s increasingly sophisticated senior living market.

From loss aversion and the “invisible cage” of comfort to the power of radical candor and personalized follow-up, the conversation explored how sales and marketing must work together to create real momentum. Below are a few Fresh Perspectives from their discussion.

LOSS AVERSION IS THE REAL COMPETITOR

Prospects aren’t just comparing communities. They’re weighing the certainty of today against the uncertainty of tomorrow. Understanding that people fear loss more than they value gain changes how we guide the conversation.

COMFORT IS THE INVISIBLE CAGE

Whether it’s a prospect resisting a move or a salesperson avoiding a tough question, comfort can quietly stall progress. Growth requires stepping outside routines before you’re forced to.

VALUE PROPOSITION IS PERSONAL, NOT UNIVERSAL

“We’ve been here 40 years” isn’t a value proposition. It’s a credential. The real work is discovering what matters to that specific prospect and aligning the message accordingly.

PRICE IS THE OBJECTION WHEN VALUE IS UNCLEAR

When we fail to connect personally relevant value, prospects default to cost. Incentives don’t replace value — they accelerate decisions once value is established.

HOSPITALITY OUTSHINES CURB APPEAL 

Landscaping matters. But energy matters more. When prospects walk in and see life happening — yoga, lectures, happy hour — they experience betterment, not just amenities.

MARK UP THE BROCHURE

Pristine collateral gets forgotten. Personalized collateral gets remembered. Circle the floor plan. Highlight the poker club. Write notes in the margins. When they pick it up weeks later, it should feel like it was made just for them.

SUSTAINED INTEREST REQUIRES INTENTIONALITY

Prospects don’t go cold. They get distracted. Breaking through requires personalization, timely follow-up and tactical persistence — from “collateral mutilation” to the Golden Email.

RADICAL CANDOR BUILDS TRUST

Seniors don’t need scripted softness. They respond to adult-to-adult conversations that are honest, direct and aligned around next steps.

MARKETING AND SALES SHOULD PUSH EACH OTHER

Innovation doesn’t happen in comfort zones. Marketing should challenge sales with smarter strategies. Sales should challenge themselves to execute better. Momentum happens when both sides lean in.

Varsity’s Roundtable is a weekly virtual gathering of senior living marketers and leaders from across the nation. For updates about future weekly Roundtable gatherings, submit your name and email address here

Culture doesn’t burn out overnight, it leaks energy through small breakdowns in communication, trust, and everyday civility. On Varsity’s podcast, Roundtable Talk, Derek sat down with Kathy Parry, a corporate energy expert who helps senior living organizations strengthen culture, recharge teams, and reignite purpose.

In their conversation, Derek and Kathy discussed the difference between morale and energy, the early warning signs of a team running out of gas and how leaders’ personal energy sets the tone for the entire culture.

The following are some fresh perspectives from the conversation. Check out the full episode here

HOW WOULD YOU DESCRIBE THE WORK YOU DO AS A CORPORATE ENERGY EXPERT?

I chose the term energy because the work I do revolves around culture and how a culture stays energized. Energy is a great way to describe what it feels like to be on a team. You know when you’re on an energized team and you know when you’re not. Culture should feel energized.

WHAT’S THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN ENERGY AND MORALE?

Morale is a little bit narrow. Energy permeates all parts of the culture. You can have a bad morale day, but energy is what gets things done. It means things are firing on all the right pistons.

WHAT ARE THE MOST COMMON SIGNS YOU SEE OF A LEADERSHIP TEAM RUNNING OUT OF ENERGY?

You see people showing up late, leaving teams, and poor communication is one of the first signs. When teams don’t feel transparency, energy breaks down quickly. Civility issues, burnout and physical exhaustion from being short staffed can all drain a team’s energy.

HOW DOES A LEADER’S PERSONAL ENERGY IMPACT THE OVERALL CULTURE?

There’s a definite trickle-down effect. You feel a leader’s energy right away. If a leader is burned out or stressed, they’re not showing up as their best self. How a leader shows up directly affects how the team shows up.

WHAT TACTICS HAVE YOU FOUND MOST EFFECTIVE IN HELPING LEADERSHIP TEAMS POWER UP?

Clear, concise communication sounds basic, but it’s critical. When people don’t get answers, they create their own information and that’s where gossip starts. Teams need to know how to get information, where it comes from, and that they can trust it.

Want to hear more from Kathy? Check out the full episode of Roundtable Talk for more fresh perspectives. Watch new episodes of Roundtable Talk on the Varsity website and on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and iHeartRadio.

Teams don’t lose energy overnight, it drains slowly, through missed connections, unspoken tension, and a lack of recognition. In senior living, where every day depends on collaboration and care, that loss of energy doesn’t just affect morale, it impacts residents, relationships, and results. Recharging that power starts with leaders who know how to reconnect their teams to purpose.

That’s the approach shared by Kathy Parry, corporate energy expert, author, and speaker, during Varsity’s weekly Roundtable. Kathy explored how intentional leadership, acknowledgment, and everyday actions can restore balance, rebuild trust, and create workplaces that hum with positive energy. She reminded attendees that when leaders take time to “flip the switch” — to listen, celebrate, and care — engagement and retention follow naturally.

Below are a few Fresh Perspectives from her discussion.

CHECK YOUR WIRING

Just like faulty circuits, teams lose power when connections are weak or misaligned. Take time to trace where the “wiring” of your organization might be off, including communication gaps, unclear roles, or overloaded batteries (people). Real energy starts with intentional alignment.

POSITIVE CHARGES POWER CULTURE

Listening, fairness, civility, care, and celebration aren’t “soft skills” — they’re electrical currents that keep teams lit. When even one current falters, burnout and frustration follow. Protect these power sources the way you’d guard your team’s electricity.

CONFLICT ISN’T FAILURE — IT’S FEEDBACK

Tension signals that energy isn’t flowing evenly. Instead of avoiding or competing, use conflict as a chance to collaborate and compromise. The goal isn’t to win, it’s to restore balance so everyone can keep moving forward together.

CELEBRATION IS AN ENERGY STRATEGY, NOT A NICE-TO-HAVE

Acknowledgment recharges teams faster than bonuses ever could. From elephant ceremonies to AI-generated songs, creative recognition builds connection, belonging, and loyalty. People don’t burn out because they work hard, they burn out because they feel unseen.

SMALL ACTIONS FLIP BIG SWITCHES

All the “C” principles — listening, conflict resolution, contributing, civility, care, and celebration — only work if you turn them on. Two minutes of intentional action can reignite engagement. Don’t wait for the perfect plan; flip the switch and start the current.

Varsity’s Roundtable is a weekly virtual gathering of senior living marketers and leaders from across the nation. For updates about future weekly Roundtable gatherings, submit your name and email address here

In senior living sales, the real work doesn’t end when the tour does — it begins. Families often leave communities feeling hopeful yet overwhelmed, facing a mix of emotions, logistics, and uncertainty about what comes next. Turning that uncertainty into clarity requires more than follow-up calls — it takes empathy, guidance, and a genuine commitment to helping families move forward.

That’s the message shared by Kiera DesChamps, founder of KD Consulting Group and author of the new book After the Tour, during Varsity’s weekly Roundtable. Drawing on her deep experience helping communities improve occupancy while supporting families through transitions, Kiera discussed how sales teams can transform interest into action through trust, partnership, and hands-on problem-solving.

Below are a few Fresh Perspectives from her discussion.

TURNING INTEREST INTO ACTION STARTS AFTER THE TOUR

The real work begins once prospects leave the community. Families go home to emotional and logistical overwhelm, not disinterest. Sales teams that guide, not just follow up, turn that silence into trust and momentum.

LISTS DON’T CLOSE SALES — SOLUTIONS DO

Every community can hand out a glossy packet, but real differentiation comes from solving problems. Warm introductions, coordinated next steps, and genuine support move families forward faster than information alone.

FOLLOW THE LEADER MODEL

Kiera’s LEADER framework — Listen, Engage, Adapt, Deliver, Execute revenue — shifts sales from scripted outreach to personalized guidance. Adapting and delivering tangible help builds confidence and readiness to move.

PARTNERSHIPS BUILD TRUST AND SCALE IMPACT

A short list of vetted, educated partners acts as an extension of the sales team. These collaborators can provide hands-on help without overloading staff and strengthen the community’s credibility with families.

REPRESENTATION STRENGTHENS CONNECTION

Families feel safer and more confident when they see themselves reflected in the people and partners representing a community. Diversity and authentic relationships create comfort and belonging from the first interaction.

INVEST WHERE IT MATTERS MOST

Rethink incentives. Instead of rent discounts, fund practical help like downsizing assistance or floor plan consultations. These creative investments reduce stress, boost readiness, and show families they’re not alone.

Varsity’s Roundtable is a weekly virtual gathering of senior living marketers and leaders from across the nation. For updates about future weekly Roundtable gatherings, submit your name and email address here

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