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The following is a guest blog entry from Larry Carlson. Larry is an advisor, board member, and author of Avandell: Reimagining the Dementia Experience. A longtime CEO in senior living, he now writes and speaks about helping older adults finish strong — living with purpose, vitality, and impact in their third age.

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Evelyn begins every morning with a ritual. She walks to the garden courtyard just after sunrise, coffee in hand, and tends to the flowers she planted last spring. “It’s funny,” she said one day, “I thought I was just helping the staff with the garden. But these mornings…they help me.”

Her comment captured something profound: legacy isn’t built at the end of life — it’s lived in the everyday choices that give it meaning.

Legacy Is Not a Monument

When people hear the word legacy, they often think of something grand — a foundation, a building, a name etched on a wall. But legacy, in its truest form, is about influence that outlasts effort.

It’s the ripple effect of kindness, wisdom, and faithfulness that shapes others long after we’re gone. For older adults, that legacy is expressed not through what they’ve achieved, but through how they continue to live now — through mentoring, listening, volunteering, or simply showing up with grace.

Why This Matters for Our Field

If you work in senior living, you’re surrounded by legacy every day — though it doesn’t always announce itself. It shows up in quiet acts:

• A retired teacher helping a neighbor relearn to read after a stroke.
• A group of residents teaching English as a second language to staff who are new to the country.
• A widow leading a grief group because she knows the terrain of loss.

These aren’t “programs.” They’re expressions of purpose. And when communities make space for this kind of living legacy, they move beyond hospitality — they become incubators of meaning.

From Activities to Agency

Most communities excel at creating activities. Fewer help residents create agency. Agency doesn’t mean expecting residents to carry the weight of running a community. It means honoring their capacity to contribute — to lead where appropriate, to share what they know, and to shape the life of the community in ways that give meaning to their days.

When residents are given the chance to lead, share, or shape what happens next, something shifts. They stop being consumers of experiences and start being co-creators of community life. That’s when vitality and belonging grow — and when marketing gains authentic stories that resonate with prospects and families alike.

Ask yourself:

• Are our residents seen as participants, or as partners?
• Do we celebrate what they still give, or mainly what they receive?
• How often do we invite them to shape the story of the community itself?

The answers to those questions reveal whether we’re truly helping people finish strong.

The Power of Storytelling

Living the legacy daily means telling stories that show what purpose looks like in real life.It’s the resident who teaches art again after decades away, the couple who celebrates their 60th anniversary surrounded by friends, or the quiet volunteer who prays over every new arrival.

These stories remind prospects — and team members — that senior living isn’t about ending well; it’s about living fully.

Closing Thought

Legacy isn’t a line in an obituary. It’s a daily practice.

Every day, we have the chance to help someone rediscover meaning, contribute to others, and live with vitality. When our communities nurture that kind of purpose, we’re not just offering care — we’re helping people write the most meaningful chapter of their lives.

That’s the heartbeat of Finishing Strong.

About the Author

Larry Carlson is an advisor, board member, and author of Avandell: Reimagining the Dementia Experience. A longtime CEO in senior living, he now writes and speaks about helping older adults finish strong — living with purpose, vitality, and impact in their third age.

The following is a guest blog entry from Larry Carlson. Larry is an advisor, board member, and author of Avandell: Reimagining the Dementia Experience. A longtime CEO in senior living, he now writes and speaks about helping older adults finish strong — living with purpose, vitality, and impact in their third age.

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When Margaret toured the community, she wasn’t looking for a swimming pool or a dining venue. She was searching for something she couldn’t quite name — a place that felt alive.

“I don’t want to just move somewhere,” she said. “I want to belong somewhere.”

That line stopped me cold. Because in those few words, Margaret captured the emotional core of every senior living decision. Beneath the surface questions about cost, care, or square footage lies something deeper: What will this next chapter make possible?

From Transaction to Transformation

For years, our industry has measured success by occupancy numbers, conversions, and closing ratios. But older adults aren’t just customers — they’re people navigating one of life’s most personal transitions.

Today’s generation doesn’t want to be sold a lifestyle; they want to be guided toward a renewed sense of purpose, belonging, and vitality. That shift — from selling units to guiding journeys — changes everything. It calls us to approach marketing not as persuasion, but as partnership.

Start with Empathy

Guiding begins with listening. It’s about asking deeper questions:

• What does thriving look like for you now?
• What do you still want to contribute or experience?
• What would make this move feel meaningful — not just comfortable?

When we pause long enough to hear the story behind the inquiry, we stop trying to fill vacancies and start helping people envision a future they can believe in. That’s when trust forms — and when connection turns into commitment.

Purpose Is the New Differentiator

Amenities can be copied. Purpose cannot. Communities that help residents connect their gifts and passions to something larger than themselves stand out in a crowded marketplace. They become places where:

• Residents lead, not just attend.
• Marketing highlights impact, not just activities.
• Staff speak the language of mission, not just service.

When marketing reflects that kind of authenticity, it attracts more than prospects. It inspires teams and reminds everyone why this work matters.

A New Kind of Conversation

The next time you sit down with a prospective resident, listen not for what they want, but for who they’re becoming. Because what we’re really offering isn’t just a new address — it’s a new beginning. We’re not helping people move in; we’re helping them move forward.

Closing Thought

Selling fills units.
Guiding changes lives.

When we reframe our role from closing deals to opening doors of purpose, we honor both the people we serve and the calling behind this work. That’s what finishing strong looks like — for residents, and for all of us who serve them.

About the Author

Larry Carlson is an advisor, board member, and author of Avandell: Reimagining the Dementia Experience. A longtime CEO in senior living, he now writes and speaks about helping older adults finish strong — living with purpose, vitality, and impact in their third age.

The following is a guest blog entry from Larry Carlson. Larry is an advisor, board member, and author of Avandell: Reimagining the Dementia Experience. A longtime CEO in senior living, he now writes and speaks about helping older adults finish strong — living with purpose, vitality, and impact in their third age.

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Dave slid into the booth across from me at a diner just off the interstate. He wrapped his hands around the coffee mug, stared at it for a long moment, and finally said, “I thought retirement would feel free. But most days… I just feel numb.”

I set down my fork and asked, “What’s going on?” “It’s not money,” he said. “We’re fine there. It’s just… I’ve drifted into a routine. Golf. TV. A few volunteer things here and there. But it feels like I’m just filling time — not really living it.”

That conversation has stayed with me for years because Dave’s story is not unusual. In fact, it’s a warning. Many people enter their later years expecting a sense of freedom but instead discover the subtle pull of drift. That quiet drift — the slow slide into comfort without real purpose — is what I call coasting. It’s the opposite of finishing strong.

WHY THIS MATTERS IN OUR FIELD

If you work in senior living, you see this reality every day. Many older adults enter a new chapter of life without a clear sense of purpose. They’ve achieved career milestones, raised families, and handled responsibilities… but now they’re unsure what comes next. As marketing and sales professionals, you’re not just presenting floorplans and amenities. You’re often the first person who can help them see the possibility of a meaningful next chapter.

THE HEART OF FINISHING STRONG

Finishing strong isn’t about staying busy or packing in more activities. It’s about:

• Choosing purpose over drift
• Nurturing relationships over routines
• Building vitality — not just longevity
• Continuing to contribute rather than retreat

For many of the people you serve, that requires re‑imagining what their next chapter can look like — a vision that includes both community and purpose.

THE MARKETING OPPORTUNITY

Here’s the reality: most prospective residents (and often their adult children) aren’t ust looking for a safe place to live. They’re searching — sometimes without even realizing it — for a reason to keep leaning forward. That’s especially true for the new generation of older adults. Many of them spent their lives leading businesses, shaping organizations, or building teams. When they move into a community, they’re not looking to be merely entertained. They want to continue living with influence and impact — to use their experience and gifts in ways that matter.

For communities, that shift is both a challenge and an opportunity. It means going beyond programs and amenities to create meaningful ways for residents to contribute — helping them live out their legacy while strengthening the community as a whole. When your conversations and messaging speak to that deeper need for purpose and impact — not just features — it resonates. You’re no longer simply selling; you’re helping them envision a future they can invest themselves in.

A QUESTION WORTH ASKING

So here’s the challenge — for those you serve and for ourselves as well: Are we coasting or are we finishing strong? That single question can spark a shift — in a prospective resident who feels adrift, or in a professional who’s been running hard but hasn’t paused to think about what really matters in the long run.

CLOSING THOUGHT

Every conversation you have as a marketing or sales professional can be more than a transaction. It can be an invitation — to live with purpose, to stay engaged, to finish strong. Helping people see that possibility is one of the most meaningful contributions you can make in this field.

 

 

This week, we welcomed Maggie Seybold from WelcomeHome at Varsity’s Roundtable, where she shared compelling insights from their latest Benchmark Report. Maggie emphasized the transformative impact of personalized engagement and timely follow-ups in improving occupancy and lead conversion within the senior living industry.

Her analysis underscored that focusing on high-quality leads, despite being fewer, yields significant value. Maggie also noted that brief, personalized follow-up calls by executive directors can greatly accelerate the sales cycle, offering communities a strategic advantage in creating more effective and engaging sales experiences.

QUALITY LEADS OUTPERFORM HIGH VOLUME

Non-professional referrals may make up less than 5% of leads, but they convert at far higher rates and generate longer stays, delivering stronger ROI than aggregator or online sources. Focusing on lead quality over quantity can pay off in long-term resident value.

EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR FOLLOW-UP ACCELERATES SALES

A brief, personalized ED call post-tour—often just three to four minutes—can shorten the sales cycle by 60%. This simple touch builds trust, boosts move-in likelihood, and sets a community apart from competitors.

TIMING IS CRUCIAL FOR POST-TOUR CONTACT

Following up within one business day increases move-in likelihood by 42%, while two days yields a 27% lift. Each day beyond that erodes prospect engagement, underscoring the need for speed without sacrificing call quality.

VIDEO MESSAGES CAN PERSONALIZE AT SCALE

Tools like OneDay allow EDs or CEOs to send personalized videos when a live call isn’t possible. Including the prospect’s name and visit details keeps the outreach authentic and impactful.

ADAPTING ENGAGEMENT ROLES WHEN NO ED IS PRESENT

In the absence of an executive director, resident ambassadors can step in to provide a relatable, first-hand perspective of community life—similar to a college tour guide—enhancing trust and connection with prospects.

Varsity’s Roundtable is a weekly virtual gathering of senior living marketers and leaders from across the nation. For updates about future weekly Roundtable gatherings, submit your name and email address here. 

As the co-founder of the National Investment Center for Seniors Housing and Care (NIC) and founder of Nexus Insights, Bob Kramer has been called a “disruptive force” in the field, always challenging us to think differently about aging, housing and care.

In the newest episode of Roundtable Talk, Bob challenged the prevailing negative perceptions of aging, describing ageism as a prejudice against our future selves. He also highlighted the significant, yet overlooked, potential of older adults in the workforce and addresses the epidemic of loneliness.

The following are some fresh perspectives from the conversation. Check out the full episode here. 

WHAT ARE SOME OF THE BIGGEST MISCONCEPTIONS THAT AMERICANS HAVE ABOUT AGING?

I think first and foremost, and this has really come about sort of since World War II and really with the boomers, and that is aging is bad. Aging is something to be feared. Aging is something negative. I spend a lot of time teaching on college campuses, and I like to point out that ageism is prejudice against our future selves. I’ll have students write down what age they think they’ll live to, and then I show them that statistically, over half of them will live to 100. I tell them, if you don’t work to change these ageist stereotypes, you’ll be consigned to irrelevance for the last third of your lives.

WHAT TRENDS ARE YOU SEEING IN HOW SENIOR LIVING IS EVOLVING?

A lot of the trends we’re seeing now were accelerated by COVID. The pandemic pushed our field out of the 20th century into the digital age. Older adults and their families discovered on-demand services—healthcare, groceries, anything delivered where they live. Consumers today are more sophisticated and savvy. They’re not just asking how many years they’ll live—they’re asking if those will be thrive years. They want environments that add life to their years, not just years to their life.

HOW WILL TECHNOLOGY AND DATA SHAPE THE FUTURE OF AGING SERVICES?

Technology and data are absolutely transformative. Senior care will always be a high-touch field, but it also needs to be high-tech. The role of technology is to enable staff to work to the limits of their license instead of being buried in paperwork. AI and data can help identify which residents are most at risk each day, allowing caregivers to prioritize time and attention. That’s how we turn data into actionable care—predictive, preventative, and personalized.

WHY DO YOU TAKE ISSUE WITH THE TERM “SILVER TSUNAMI”?

Because it’s deeply ageist. Nobody ever thinks of a tsunami as a good thing—it’s an unmitigated disaster. So when we call the aging population a “silver tsunami,” we’re framing longevity as a problem instead of one of humanity’s greatest achievements. It turns the longevity bonus into a longevity curse. We should be asking, how do we make the most of increased longevity, both for individuals and society?

HOW WELL IS U.S. POLICY ALIGNED WITH THE NEEDS OF AN AGING POPULATION?

We’re not aligned at all. The public sector alone can’t meet the needs ahead. We need to incentivize private sector solutions and empower nonprofit and community organizations. Right now, both government programs and market dynamics are pushing people into what I call the “forgotten middle”—too rich to qualify for subsidies but too poor for private pay. That’s unsustainable, and the pressure on local and state governments will only grow over the next decade.

WHAT GIVES YOU THE MOST HOPE ABOUT THE FUTURE OF AGING IN AMERICA?

The value of the contributions older adults want to make—and the fact that society needs them. Whether it’s workforce participation, volunteering, or supporting preventative health, older adults will be central to addressing the challenges ahead. Necessity and opportunity are coming together, and that gives me real hope.

Want to hear more from Bob? Check out the full episode of Roundtable Talk for more fresh perspectives. Watch new episodes of Roundtable Talk on the Varsity website and on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and iHeartRadio.

Brian Parman is the Director of The Point and Pavilion at CC Young in Dallas. In that role, he curates and develops a robust and expanding calendar of activities, programs, and events designed to nurture and enrich the lives of both CC Young residents and the Dallas community.

Recently on Varsity’s weekly Roundtable, Brian shared how The Point leverages its senior enrichment center to engage the broader community and create connections that can lead to future residents.

THE POWER OF “BLUE SKY THINKING”

Encouraging big ideas and pushing boundaries has led to creative programs, including a TV studio, lifelong learning initiatives, and engagement across all levels of care.

EXPANDING BEYOND RESIDENTS

The Point membership program started as a small amenity and evolved into a thriving community resource, bringing in non-residents who often transition into full-time residents.

INNOVATION THROUGH TECHNOLOGY

COVID accelerated CC Young’s embrace of tech, from a fully equipped TV studio to digital tools like Canva, Touchtown, and QR codes to improve communication and accessibility.

ENRICHING LIVES THROUGH COMMUNITY PARTNERSHIPS

Collaborations with nonprofits, colleges, and local experts have expanded programming, from art and writing contests to wellness and music therapy.

A DYNAMIC APPROACH TO ENGAGEMENT

Monthly themed planning, live-streamed events, and a mix of in-person and virtual experiences ensure that CC Young remains adaptable, inclusive, and future-focused.

Varsity’s Roundtable is a weekly virtual gathering of senior living marketers and leaders from across the nation. For updates about future weekly Roundtable gatherings, submit your name and email address here. 

 

Recently on Varsity’s weekly Roundtable we were joined by Susan Dolton, corporate director of sales at Goodwin Living for an insightful discussion on solving waitlist challenges in senior living.

Susan shared how Goodwin Living’s Early Advantage and Ready List programs are tackling a 900+ person waitlist, providing faster access to life care agreements and higher levels of living while generating revenue and streamlining sales team efficiency. 

Here’s are some highlights from that conversation: 

FIXING THE WAITLIST BOTTLENECK

Goodwin Living faced a major challenge: a waitlist of over 900 people but only 70-80 apartments opening each year. The process of matching available units with ready residents was slow and inefficient, often requiring up to 40 calls per unit. A new system was needed to streamline move-ins.

A BROKEN MOVE-IN TO MOVE-UP PROGRAM

The Move-in to Move-up program, designed to fill smaller apartments, was misused by wealthier residents as a way to jump the line for larger units. This left those in need of affordable one-bedrooms without options and created inefficiencies that increased costs and disrupted community-building.

INTRODUCING EARLY ADVANTAGE

To create a fairer and more efficient waitlist system, Goodwin Living launched Early Advantage. This program allows members to secure a life care contract while still living at home, giving them guaranteed access to Goodwin Living communities when the time comes and priority for higher levels of care.

A CAP TO MAINTAIN BALANCE

Early Advantage membership was capped at 100 households to balance demand and ease concerns from current residents. Financial and medical qualifications were required, ensuring a sustainable, well-managed program that didn’t compromise available care services.

STRONGER THAN EXPECTED DEMAND

Early Advantage exceeded expectations, with 179 letters of intent submitted for just 100 spots. The high demand validated the program’s value, and as those who didn’t make the cut shift to the Ready List, Goodwin Living is seeing increased engagement from Priority Club members rethinking their timelines.

Varsity’s Roundtable is a weekly virtual gathering of senior living marketers and leaders from across the nation. For updates about future weekly Roundtable gatherings, submit your name and email address here. 

Keith Carson from Integrated Sales Solutions was a recent guest on our weekly Roundtable meeting. His presentation — titled “Seeing Sales Differently: Transforming Practices for Meaningful Impact” — explored the profound impact of rhythms, practices and rituals in sales.

The conversation focused on three stages of the sales process – Engage, Qualify and Propose. Here’s a closer look at each stage: 

ENGAGE

Keith introduced the first stage of the sales process, highlighting its importance in setting the tone with prospects. He contrasted the typical approach, where a salesperson like “Salesy Steve” focuses on features and benefits, quickly diving into what his organization can offer. 

Instead, Keith advocated for a different strategy: start with the “why” behind the services. By addressing the deeper purpose and values that drive their work, sales professionals could foster a more genuine connection from the beginning, creating a relationship based on authenticity and shared values rather than a standard pitch.

QUALIFY

In this stage of the sales process, you can connect directly with prospects, asking questions to understand their needs and challenges. Keith contrasts this with “Salesy Steve,” who pressures prospects with relentless questions, often missing the empathy needed to address their unique struggles. 

Keith noted that sales professionals are often viewed with skepticism, with prospects wary of hidden agendas. Keith emphasized that trust is built not through grand gestures but through small, consistent actions—calling when promised, negotiating fairly, and being transparent about what the community can and cannot offer. These everyday moments establish genuine trust.

PROPOSE

At the proposal stage, you’re close to helping the buyer decide to join your community. Keith emphasized that while it’s tempting to focus on closing the deal, the priority should still be on the buyer’s needs. He urged sales professionals to approach this meeting with a service mindset, ensuring it’s genuinely about the prospect, not just the sale. 

By keeping the focus on addressing their specific needs and offering a tailored solution, you reinforce trust, creating a more authentic connection that supports the buyer in making the right decision for themselves.

Varsity’s Roundtable is a weekly virtual gathering of senior living marketers and leaders from across the nation. For updates about future weekly Roundtable gatherings, submit your name and email address here.

Varsity Sales & Marketing Strategist Jackie Stone knows a thing or two about recruiting and training salespeople. Said Jackie: “Spending time up front to hire the right people and train them saves money, time and potentially your job!”

Jackie was also a recent presenter on Varsity’s weekly Roundtable gathering where she talked about recruiting and training salespeople for success, including, tips for finding good sales team candidates, asking the right interview questions to learn more about each candidate and the importance of clearly defining expectations for your sales staff.

The following are some highlights from that conversation.

CONSIDER CANDIDATES FROM OUTSIDE SENIOR LIVING

Jackie suggested considering sales candidates from outside senior living in related industries like hospitality. She recalled that when she first began her career in senior living, Greystone often recruited salespeople from local hotels, valuing their experience in customer service, sales and operations, which translates well to senior living. Jackie noted that many people from the hospitality industry have successfully transitioned into senior living roles, and still hold those roles today.

DIVE DEEPER WITH INTERVIEW QUESTIONS

Jackie advised against using the cliché question, “Where do you see yourself in five years?” Instead, she suggested more targeted questions to evaluate candidates effectively.

For sales experience, ask, “How do you sell the product you’re currently offering?” To assess handling challenges, try, “How do you handle customer objections?” and “Have you met your sales goals consistently? What challenges did you face?” Gauge industry knowledge with, “What do you know about senior living? Did you research our organization?” Lastly, test strategic thinking with, “If our sales were declining, what steps would you take to improve them?”

ESSENTIAL SENIOR LIVING SALES TRAINING

Specialized training is essential for all salespeople, regardless of experience, to excel in senior living sales. Training should include techniques for overcoming objections unique to the industry and discovery methods that delve into prospective residents’ values for tailored presentations. Emphasis on values-based selling, rather than just giving standard tours, is crucial to connect with what the prospect cares about. Creative follow-up approaches that move beyond simple thank-you notes and incorporate personalized outreach helps sales teams stand out. Training should also cover community outreach strategies, ensuring effective networking and targeted messaging to referral sources.

REVIEW AT 90 DAYS

The 30-day review for new hires is often skipped, as the initial period is focused on learning the community, its processes, and culture. Instead, a 90-day review provides a more accurate assessment of performance. Key evaluation criteria includes meeting sales goals, effectiveness in marketing activities like scheduling appointments and community outreach, and building strong relationships with prospects, residents, and colleagues. Commitment to self-improvement and seeking additional training or support are also important factors.

Varsity’s Roundtable is a weekly virtual gathering of senior living marketers and leaders from across the nation. For updates about future weekly Roundtable gatherings, submit your name and email address here. 

 

Joy Loverde is a path carver, a keynote speaker and a best-selling author. Her book, “The Complete Eldercare Planner” helps senior living shoppers figure out “where to start, which questions to ask and how to find help.” 

She also knows what it takes to plan effective sales events for senior living communities. For more than 35 years Joy has participated in hundreds of senior living marketing events as a keynote speaker and a mature marketing consultant. She joined our weekly Roundtable recently to share some of the things she’s learned about sales events. The following are some highlights from that conversation. 

WHAT CHANGES HAVE YOU SEEN IN TERMS OF WHO ATTENDS SENIOR LIVING MARKETING EVENTS? 

There have been significant shifts, particularly in the demographics of attendees at independent living prospect events.The audience has become much younger and healthier over the past decade, with participants as young as 45 and many in their 60s and 70s who are active and healthy. Joy highlighted the presence of young widows in their 50s and 60s who feel invisible, as well as the LGBTQ+ population, who are concerned about finding inclusive living environments. 

ARE YOU FINDING THAT THE PEOPLE ATTENDING EVENTS ARE MUCH MORE EDUCATED ON THE SENIOR LIVING MARKETPLACE THAN BEFORE?

Prospects today are much more informed. Attendees, especially boomers, enter the events with extensive knowledge of the products, whether it’s assisted living or independent living. They have thoroughly researched online and are aware of various lifestyle housing alternatives. 

Many attendees have experienced caregiving for their parents or grandparents, which has made them aware of the difficulties and financial nightmares associated with end-of-life care. This personal experience has informed their decisions about what they do not want as they journey toward old age.

WHAT KINDS OF QUESTIONS ARE PEOPLE IN YOUR SENIOR LIVING AUDIENCES (PROSPECTS) ASKING NOW? 

In the past, discussions focused on the benefits of communal living and dining preferences. Today, boomer prospects express more of a desire for control and individuality. For example, customizing their personal living spaces is important to them.  

Another significant shift in questions revolves around emotional wellness. In addition to boomers, many younger widows attend Joy’s events. They ask about individual support in the areas of grief, yoga, meditation, and spirituality. Joy further explained that in general many boomers are frequently experiencing grief due to the loss of loved ones, and they express the need for ongoing emotional support.

DOES THE LOCATION OF WHERE YOU HOLD MARKETING EVENTS MATTER IN TERMS OF ATTRACTING PROSPECTS? 

Joy noted a significant shift in event location strategies. Previously, there was a focus on holding independent living events at luxurious off-campus venues like country clubs to showcase community life. Now, the trend is toward smaller, on-campus events for Life Plan Communities, accommodating up to 60 people. Smaller audiences allow for more personalized interactions and attention to individual prospects.

Conversely, events for assisted living are now often held in vibrant settings like country clubs. These venues offer a feel-good environment with healthy food and social opportunities, which can be particularly appealing to prospects and adult children facing crises. 

Varsity’s Roundtable is a weekly virtual gathering of senior living marketers and leaders from across the nation. For updates about future weekly Roundtable gatherings, submit your name and email address here.