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Dr. Sara Zeff Geber is the nation’s foremost authority on solo aging, specializing in the unique challenges faced by older adults without traditional family support. As a gerontologist and author of Essential Retirement Planning for Solo Agers she empowers those who are aging alone to embrace independence while planning proactively for a fulfilling, secure future.

In a recent episode of Varsity’s podcast, Roundtable Talk, Sara talked about how solo agers can build social networks to provide support later in life and why senior living communities are the best option for solo agers.

Here’s a look at a few of the fresh perspectives Sara shared during her conversation with Roundtable Talk host, Derek Dunham. 

WHAT IS A SOLO AGER, AND HOW DID YOU DEFINE THE TERM?

I define a solo ager as anyone who doesn’t have children, whether married or single, and anyone aging alone without family support nearby. Initially, I intended it to mean just people without children, as adult children typically care for older adults. However, with societal shifts and people moving away from family, solo aging has become more prevalent.

WHAT ARE THE MOST IMPORTANT STEPS SOLO AGERS SHOULD TAKE WHEN PLANNING FOR RETIREMENT?

It’s crucial to start early, focusing on financial planning, maintaining physical health, and building community. Eating well, staying in shape, and fostering strong relationships are essential steps. Building a supportive community early in life can pay significant dividends as we age.

WHAT DO YOU LOOK FOR IN AN IDEAL LIFE PLAN COMMUNITY?

For me—and I think for most solo agers—it’s about engagement. I value communities where residents actively participate in governance, activities, and connections with the broader community. This might include partnerships with local universities, intergenerational programs, or volunteer opportunities, such as working at food banks. These aspects provide a sense of meaning and purpose.

HOW CAN SOLO AGERS BUILD NETWORKS FOR SUPPORT WHEN THEY DON’T HAVE FAMILY?

The key is cultivating a community early and getting professional help where needed. This includes working with financial advisors, preparing advanced directives, and enlisting a power of attorney. Many solo agers face challenges when choosing proxies to represent them in legal and medical matters, but these relationships can be nurtured over time.

WHY DO YOU ADVOCATE FOR SENIOR LIVING COMMUNITIES OVER AGING IN PLACE?

The reality of aging in place is often isolating, especially for solo agers without family nearby. Senior living communities provide a built-in sense of community, structure, and support, which aging in place typically lacks. These communities can help replace the roles traditionally filled by family, ensuring residents have meaningful connections and the care they need.

HOW HAS THE LANDSCAPE OF SOLO AGING CHANGED, AND WHAT DOES THE FUTURE HOLD?

Solo aging has grown significantly, especially with the baby boomer generation. About 20% of boomers are childless, compared to 10% in previous generations. The trend will likely continue as younger generations also experience high rates of childlessness. This demographic shift means solo aging will increasingly shape how we think about and provide for aging populations.

Varsity and our Roundtable attendees were treated to a special guest recently when we were joined by Dr. Sara Zeff Geber, the nation’s foremost authority on solo aging and the author of Essential Retirement Planning for Solo Agers.

Dr. Geber shared a closer look at solo agers, including an analysis of who they are, their population, key statistics about them and what solo agers want. Here’s a closer look at some highlights from her presentation: 

THE SOLO AGER POPULATION

The solo ager population is not as small as some might think. Dr. Geber referenced data from a 2021 U.S. Census Bureau study, which helped illustrate the size of this demographic. 

Focusing on the childless population, she explained that, among the generation preceding baby boomers, about 10% (around 2 million people) were childless. However, this percentage increased significantly with the baby boomer generation, especially among late boomers, where nearly 20% (one in five women) did not have children.

THE SUPPORT SOLO AGERS ARE MISSING

Dr. Geber’s research identified six key areas where adult children commonly support aging parents, such as residential decisions, real estate management, and financial and emotional support. 

Solo agers, without family support, face challenges managing these tasks independently. She cited a friend whose mother, despite moving to a Life Plan Community, still needed her children’s help with real estate and personal matters. Dr. Geber emphasized that Life Plan Communities can fill these support gaps for solo agers, assisting with real estate and financial decisions, making them an appealing option for those aging without family assistance.

WHAT SOLO AGING RESIDENTS WANT

Research into solo agers’ housing priorities revealed a strong focus on community and social connections, which they value even more than the average baby boomer. 

Dr. Geber advocates for senior living communities as an ideal solution for solo agers, advising against aging in place. She emphasized that communities catering to solo agers’ unique needs will be more attractive to this demographic. Additionally, she noted that many solo agers are well-qualified for senior living options, further supporting her belief in these communities as the best choice for aging independently yet with ample support.

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