QUOTES
“One day I was young and I went to bed. I woke up. I was old. That’s how it happens. Suddenly, without warning, you’re there.” (J.J.)
“It was really a search for bold. I didn’t start it even as a book. I certainly didn’t start it with a whole pile of bold ideas. I had absolutely nothing.” (J.J.)
“Everybody’s got a story. Everybody’s got stuff. You can’t base a relationship on sharing your victim story, or at least not very long or successfully.” (J.J.)
“I think a thumbnail definition of bold is facing reality and stepping up and doing what you need to do.” (J.J.)
“Getting older is a very big deal. Anyone who says it happened in a different way or that getting old is no big deal is a liar, liar, pants on fire.” (J.J.)
“Humor is a powerful tool for talking about anything sensitive or difficult.” (J.J.)
“As long as you’re fighting the word old, you’re never going to move forward.” (J.J.)
“Every time someone dies, it’s like a small library burning down.” (J.J.)
“Fear of the future and longing for the past can keep you stuck in place.” (J.J.)
“The good news is your world can get bigger much faster than it took for it to shrink.” (J.J.)
“Nobody was going to rescue me. I had to make this happen.” (J.J.)
“Be careful who you invest time in. How many viable years do I really have left? I don’t have a lot of time to make big mistakes with.” (J.J.)
NOTES
J.J. Hubal is a bestselling author, cartoonist and former special education teacher whose work explores aging through humor, honesty and visual storytelling. Her book Goodbye Old, Hello Bold encourages readers to rethink aging, embrace change and approach later life with more curiosity, courage and self-awareness.
J.J. Hubal is the author of Goodbye Old, Hello Bold, a visually driven book that blends cartoons, essays and reflections on aging. Through humor and deeply personal observations, the book addresses topics like loneliness, grief, reinvention, friendship and resilience while encouraging readers to embrace the realities of growing older.
Hubal spent decades working as a special education teacher before fully embracing writing and cartooning later in life. She has published cartoons and essays for years, with many of her cartoons focused on aging, memory, relationships and the realities of later life. She currently lives in Savannah, Georgia, where she continues writing, drawing and speaking about aging, creativity and personal growth.
J.J. said aging often creates anxiety because people become overwhelmed by loss, change and unrealistic expectations about what later life is supposed to look like.
She described “bold” as facing reality honestly and stepping up to do what needs to be done, even when the actions are small or unnoticed by others.
J.J. explained that humor helps people approach difficult conversations about aging because cartoons and comedy create emotional distance while still communicating truth.
She shared that many of the cultural narratives around aging are shifting, including the growing acceptance of using the word “old” openly and honestly.
J.J. talked about how loneliness became a turning point in her own life and inspired her to actively seek new friendships, experiences and communities.
She discussed the importance of staying open to reinvention later in life and said even small steps, like attending an art class or joining a group, can dramatically expand someone’s world.
J.J. emphasized that many fears around aging stem from clinging too tightly to the past instead of creating space for new experiences, relationships and possibilities.
She encouraged people to think proactively about aging by preparing emotionally, socially and practically for future changes rather than waiting until challenges become crises.
