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The biggest growth opportunity in senior living isn’t at the luxury end of the market — it’s in the middle. As affordability pressures rise and expectations evolve, more older adults are looking for options that feel intentional, flexible and human, without the price tag or tradeoffs of traditional models. Yet much of the industry still isn’t designed to meet them where they are.

That tension was the focus of a recent conversation on Varsity’s weekly Roundtable, where we welcomed Matt Thornhill of Cozy Home Community for a thoughtful discussion on rethinking senior living for the middle market. Below are a few Fresh Perspectives from his discussion.

PEOPLE DON’T WANT “SENIOR LIVING,” THEY WANT A BETTER NEXT CHAPTER

Most older adults delay moving because today’s options feel like a concession, not a choice. Communities that position themselves as proactive lifestyle upgrades — not reactive care solutions — unlock demand years earlier.

CONTROL BEATS INDEPENDENCE EVERY TIME

Boomers aren’t clinging to independence, they’re protecting agency. Rigid schedules, programmed fun, and institutional rhythms erode appeal. The future belongs to models that let residents pilot their own day while still offering support.

THE ‘FORGOTTEN MIDDLE’ IS A DESIGN PROBLEM, NOT JUST A FINANCIAL ONE 

Middle-market senior living doesn’t fail because of demand — it fails because it’s designed like scaled-down luxury or dressed-up affordability. Right-sized homes, shared resources, and smarter delivery models solve more than subsidies ever will.

COMMUNITY DOESN’T HAPPEN BY ACCIDENT, IT HAS TO BE ENGINEERED

Porches that face inward, smaller clusters, shared pavilions, and intentional onboarding tools all do the heavy lifting. If connection is left to chance, isolation wins. Design is the first community manager.

OWNERSHIP ISN’T THE GOAL, FLEXIBILITY IS

Whether rental or ownership, what matters is removing friction and risk. Nonprofit-owned, rental-first models lower the barrier to entry while still delivering stability, dignity, and real “home” energy.

SERVICES SCALE WHEN PEOPLE CLUSTER

Aggregating residents makes care coordination, wellness services, and even meals more affordable and efficient. Senior living delivered as a service, not a destination, flips the cost equation and expands access.

THE NEXT WAVE OF SENIOR LIVING WILL BORROW FROM EVERYWHERE ELSE

Universities, churches, municipalities, and healthcare systems aren’t competitors — they’re partners. Adaptive reuse, shared land, and co-branded ecosystems will drive growth faster than standalone campuses ever could.

Varsity’s Roundtable is a weekly virtual gathering of senior living marketers and leaders from across the nation. For updates about future weekly Roundtable gatherings, submit your name and email address here. 

QUOTES

“We take seriously our role of keeping providers informed and helping them make a difference in their work.” (Kimberly)

“The industry needs to find a way to address the discrepancy between supply and demand. There’s just not enough supply right now.” (Kimberly)

“Providers need to be careful that the tech they adopt will solve the issues they’re facing. Don’t be tempted by the latest shiny object and be sure to do due diligence.” (Kimberly)

“What I find surprising is how quickly people will believe whatever they read online if it fits into their belief system.” (Kimberly)

“A healthy dose of skepticism is critical these days.” (Kimberly)

“Our writers have to write three stories a day, five days a week. I don’t have time to read a long, drawn-out pitch before I get to what you’re actually pitching. Get to the point right away.” (Kimberly)

“If you’re going to send me something under embargo, have someone available to talk about it immediately. If you’re not ready, don’t send it.” (Kimberly)

“It’s okay to say that you can’t comment, especially on pending litigation. Even better, you can talk about initiating an internal investigation regarding an event.” (Kimberly)

“Assisted living is moving to more of a healthcare model, whether the sector wants to admit it or not.” (Kimberly)

“I told my husband I was going to quit my job of 20 years and go to work for this publication. He just about lost his mind. I knew this is what I wanted to do, and I went for it. It’s worked out great.” (Kimberly)

NOTES

Kimberly is a content editor at McKnight’s Senior Living, where she covers the business, workforce, policy and innovation shaping senior housing. With a background in journalism and public relations, she brings deep industry context and a sharp editorial lens to aging services.

McKnight’s Senior Living is one of the industry’s most trusted B2B publications, delivering news, insight and analysis for senior housing leaders nationwide. The publication recently earned a Neal Award, considered the Pulitzer Prize of business-to-business journalism.

Kimberly previously spent more than 20 years in public relations and daily journalism before joining McKnight’s in 2019, just as the pandemic reshaped senior living. Her experience on both sides of the media relationship informs her practical guidance for providers and PR teams.

The “silver wave” has arrived, with demand for senior living far outpacing new development and supply.

Assisted living is steadily shifting toward a healthcare model, including value-based care and deeper clinical integration.

Staffing challenges are evolving from pay and bonuses to culture, recognition and meaningful engagement.

AI and technology can help, but providers must avoid chasing shiny tools that don’t solve real problems.

Solo agers and the middle market represent growing populations the industry still underestimates.

Trust in media is declining, making skepticism, accuracy and transparency more critical than ever.

Successful media pitches are concise, timely and supported by immediate access to knowledgeable sources.

High-performing operators rely on data, active industry engagement and leadership that listens and communicates openly.

The following is a guest blog entry from Larry Carlson. Larry is an advisor, board member, and author of Avandell: Reimagining the Dementia Experience. A longtime CEO in senior living, he now writes and speaks about helping older adults finish strong — living with purpose, vitality, and impact in their third age.

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Dave slid into the booth across from me at a diner just off the interstate. He wrapped his hands around the coffee mug, stared at it for a long moment, and finally said, “I thought retirement would feel free. But most days… I just feel numb.”

I set down my fork and asked, “What’s going on?” “It’s not money,” he said. “We’re fine there. It’s just… I’ve drifted into a routine. Golf. TV. A few volunteer things here and there. But it feels like I’m just filling time — not really living it.”

That conversation has stayed with me for years because Dave’s story is not unusual. In fact, it’s a warning. Many people enter their later years expecting a sense of freedom but instead discover the subtle pull of drift. That quiet drift — the slow slide into comfort without real purpose — is what I call coasting. It’s the opposite of finishing strong.

WHY THIS MATTERS IN OUR FIELD

If you work in senior living, you see this reality every day. Many older adults enter a new chapter of life without a clear sense of purpose. They’ve achieved career milestones, raised families, and handled responsibilities… but now they’re unsure what comes next. As marketing and sales professionals, you’re not just presenting floorplans and amenities. You’re often the first person who can help them see the possibility of a meaningful next chapter.

THE HEART OF FINISHING STRONG

Finishing strong isn’t about staying busy or packing in more activities. It’s about:

• Choosing purpose over drift
• Nurturing relationships over routines
• Building vitality — not just longevity
• Continuing to contribute rather than retreat

For many of the people you serve, that requires re‑imagining what their next chapter can look like — a vision that includes both community and purpose.

THE MARKETING OPPORTUNITY

Here’s the reality: most prospective residents (and often their adult children) aren’t ust looking for a safe place to live. They’re searching — sometimes without even realizing it — for a reason to keep leaning forward. That’s especially true for the new generation of older adults. Many of them spent their lives leading businesses, shaping organizations, or building teams. When they move into a community, they’re not looking to be merely entertained. They want to continue living with influence and impact — to use their experience and gifts in ways that matter.

For communities, that shift is both a challenge and an opportunity. It means going beyond programs and amenities to create meaningful ways for residents to contribute — helping them live out their legacy while strengthening the community as a whole. When your conversations and messaging speak to that deeper need for purpose and impact — not just features — it resonates. You’re no longer simply selling; you’re helping them envision a future they can invest themselves in.

A QUESTION WORTH ASKING

So here’s the challenge — for those you serve and for ourselves as well: Are we coasting or are we finishing strong? That single question can spark a shift — in a prospective resident who feels adrift, or in a professional who’s been running hard but hasn’t paused to think about what really matters in the long run.

CLOSING THOUGHT

Every conversation you have as a marketing or sales professional can be more than a transaction. It can be an invitation — to live with purpose, to stay engaged, to finish strong. Helping people see that possibility is one of the most meaningful contributions you can make in this field.

Teams don’t lose energy overnight, it drains slowly, through missed connections, unspoken tension, and a lack of recognition. In senior living, where every day depends on collaboration and care, that loss of energy doesn’t just affect morale, it impacts residents, relationships, and results. Recharging that power starts with leaders who know how to reconnect their teams to purpose.

That’s the approach shared by Kathy Parry, corporate energy expert, author, and speaker, during Varsity’s weekly Roundtable. Kathy explored how intentional leadership, acknowledgment, and everyday actions can restore balance, rebuild trust, and create workplaces that hum with positive energy. She reminded attendees that when leaders take time to “flip the switch” — to listen, celebrate, and care — engagement and retention follow naturally.

Below are a few Fresh Perspectives from her discussion.

CHECK YOUR WIRING

Just like faulty circuits, teams lose power when connections are weak or misaligned. Take time to trace where the “wiring” of your organization might be off, including communication gaps, unclear roles, or overloaded batteries (people). Real energy starts with intentional alignment.

POSITIVE CHARGES POWER CULTURE

Listening, fairness, civility, care, and celebration aren’t “soft skills” — they’re electrical currents that keep teams lit. When even one current falters, burnout and frustration follow. Protect these power sources the way you’d guard your team’s electricity.

CONFLICT ISN’T FAILURE — IT’S FEEDBACK

Tension signals that energy isn’t flowing evenly. Instead of avoiding or competing, use conflict as a chance to collaborate and compromise. The goal isn’t to win, it’s to restore balance so everyone can keep moving forward together.

CELEBRATION IS AN ENERGY STRATEGY, NOT A NICE-TO-HAVE

Acknowledgment recharges teams faster than bonuses ever could. From elephant ceremonies to AI-generated songs, creative recognition builds connection, belonging, and loyalty. People don’t burn out because they work hard, they burn out because they feel unseen.

SMALL ACTIONS FLIP BIG SWITCHES

All the “C” principles — listening, conflict resolution, contributing, civility, care, and celebration — only work if you turn them on. Two minutes of intentional action can reignite engagement. Don’t wait for the perfect plan; flip the switch and start the current.

Varsity’s Roundtable is a weekly virtual gathering of senior living marketers and leaders from across the nation. For updates about future weekly Roundtable gatherings, submit your name and email address here. 

In senior living sales, the real work doesn’t end when the tour does — it begins. Families often leave communities feeling hopeful yet overwhelmed, facing a mix of emotions, logistics, and uncertainty about what comes next. Turning that uncertainty into clarity requires more than follow-up calls — it takes empathy, guidance, and a genuine commitment to helping families move forward.

That’s the message shared by Kiera DesChamps, founder of KD Consulting Group and author of the new book After the Tour, during Varsity’s weekly Roundtable. Drawing on her deep experience helping communities improve occupancy while supporting families through transitions, Kiera discussed how sales teams can transform interest into action through trust, partnership, and hands-on problem-solving.

Below are a few Fresh Perspectives from her discussion.

TURNING INTEREST INTO ACTION STARTS AFTER THE TOUR

The real work begins once prospects leave the community. Families go home to emotional and logistical overwhelm, not disinterest. Sales teams that guide, not just follow up, turn that silence into trust and momentum.

LISTS DON’T CLOSE SALES — SOLUTIONS DO

Every community can hand out a glossy packet, but real differentiation comes from solving problems. Warm introductions, coordinated next steps, and genuine support move families forward faster than information alone.

FOLLOW THE LEADER MODEL

Kiera’s LEADER framework — Listen, Engage, Adapt, Deliver, Execute revenue — shifts sales from scripted outreach to personalized guidance. Adapting and delivering tangible help builds confidence and readiness to move.

PARTNERSHIPS BUILD TRUST AND SCALE IMPACT

A short list of vetted, educated partners acts as an extension of the sales team. These collaborators can provide hands-on help without overloading staff and strengthen the community’s credibility with families.

REPRESENTATION STRENGTHENS CONNECTION

Families feel safer and more confident when they see themselves reflected in the people and partners representing a community. Diversity and authentic relationships create comfort and belonging from the first interaction.

INVEST WHERE IT MATTERS MOST

Rethink incentives. Instead of rent discounts, fund practical help like downsizing assistance or floor plan consultations. These creative investments reduce stress, boost readiness, and show families they’re not alone.

Varsity’s Roundtable is a weekly virtual gathering of senior living marketers and leaders from across the nation. For updates about future weekly Roundtable gatherings, submit your name and email address here.