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QUOTES

“Theater has the great ability to bring people together in a dark space without anything to distract them. So everyone’s there to hear the same story at the same time. And when they leave the theater, they walk away with that story.” (Jerry)

“Live theater is a very, very special and unique experience that can only happen with that particular group of people you happen to show up with for the same performance.” (Jerry)

“I looked into her eyes and I saw a 19-year-old. She was so eager to be the best that she could be, even at that age. Here’s this young choreographer, and she was willing to listen and take the notes because I was out front watching.” (Jerry)

“Making musicals is like fishing with a net. You throw it into the sea. If it comes back with a lot of fish, you’re going to have success. But if it comes back half empty, you’re not going to run very long.” (Jerry)

“There are more letters in the word business than there are in show. My mom always used to say, it’s our job to get them to come back tomorrow.” (Jerry)

“By giving to my community and creating a safe space and raising money with the help of millions of other dancers and creative artists, that philanthropic event gave me a career.” (Jerry)

“Michael Bennett used to say to me, don’t wait for the muses. Just show up and do the work. And really, that’s what it is. It’s about showing up.” (Jerry)

“The food that you eat, how you fuel your body, is as important as how you use your body to exercise and express itself. The fuel will actually help you in the longevity, without question.” (Jerry)

“When people are in physical spaces together, they are actually doing a dance not to bump into each other. And patterns start to emerge.” (Jerry)

“Finding space for those stories is important, because along with them comes a lot of young, new artists that have new voices. And we need those voices.” (Jerry)

“My relationships with my younger creative artists fuel me as much as I’m giving them advice and fueling them. It’s a give and take, there’s no question.” (Jerry)

“Patience. Patience is the one thing that so many young artists have to learn.” (Jerry)

NOTES

Jerry Mitchell is a two-time Tony Award-winning director and choreographer known for shaping iconic Broadway productions like Hairspray, Kinky Boots, and Legally Blonde. With a career spanning decades, he has built a reputation for blending storytelling, movement and emotion to create memorable theatrical experiences.

Beyond his creative work, Jerry is deeply involved in the Broadway community, contributing as a mentor, collaborator and philanthropist. His leadership and influence extend across generations of performers and creators, helping shape both the art and business of theater.

Jerry is also the creator of Broadway Bares, a long-running fundraising initiative that has generated over $30 million for Broadway Cares/Equity Fights AIDS. His philanthropic impact earned him the Isabelle Stevenson Tony Award, recognizing his commitment to community and giving back.

Live theater creates a shared experience that connects audiences in a way no other medium can.

Great performances evolve over time, with shows becoming stronger and more refined as actors fully inhabit their roles.

Different generations engage with stories in unique ways, often reflecting their own personal experiences and perspectives.

Success in creative work comes from consistently showing up and putting in the effort.

Strong collaboration is essential, requiring alignment, trust and a shared vision to bring ideas to life.

Mentorship is a two-way exchange, where experienced artists and younger talent learn from each other.

Staying relevant requires adapting to changing audiences and understanding what resonates across generations.

Patience is a critical ingredient for long-term growth, especially for those early in their careers.

QUOTES

“I can’t use what you can’t do. What I can do is engage with you and see what you have. That’s where we can come into a relationship and work together.” (Teepa)

“When you’ve lost something, your brain doesn’t give up. Your brain picks something else to use.” (Teepa)

“Dementia robs us of our knowingness. It forces us back into paying attention and being observant because it’s always changing.” (Teepa)

“I need to tune in to the reality of who you are now, not just who you were and what you used to be capable of.” (Teepa)

“People think dementia is all about memory, but memory is this much. There’s all this other stuff going on.” (Teepa)

“The relationship is going to change dramatically. Living with brain change is hard whether you’re on the inside of it or the outside observing it.” (Teepa)

“My job is not to decide that someone is suffering. My job is to figure out how to support you through what you’re going through.” (Teepa)

“I believe there is no care about me without me. It’s their life and their care, and I have to figure out how to partner with them in it.” (Teepa)

“The reality is they’re not less, they’re different. Their brain works differently, but they’re still living life.” (Teepa)

“Eighty percent or more of this work is done by unpaid people like family and friends, and we don’t train them. We just drop them into it and they keep going until they drop.” (Teepa)

“We need at least three people, maybe five or more. We need to build community around this condition.” (Teepa)

NOTES

Teepa Snow is an occupational therapist, educator and one of the most recognized voices in dementia care. She is known for helping families, care partners and senior living professionals better understand brain change and build more meaningful connections with people living with dementia.

Snow is the founder of Positive Approach to Care, an organization focused on improving dementia care through training, education and practical support strategies. The organization works with families, senior living providers and healthcare professionals around the world to build skills and confidence in supporting people experiencing brain change.

Through Positive Approach to Care and the Snow Approach Foundation, Teepa and her team provide training programs, professional education and community-based demonstrations designed to improve dementia care practices. Her work emphasizes practical communication techniques, recognizing remaining abilities and building supportive communities around people living with dementia. Her programs now reach professionals and families across the United States, Canada and more than two dozen countries.

A positive approach to dementia care focuses on what abilities remain rather than what has been lost, meeting people where they are and building connection through observation, tone, body language and supportive communication.

Fear often dominates public perceptions of dementia because the condition disrupts routines and predictability, forcing family members and care partners to stay attentive and adapt constantly as abilities change.

Dementia is often misunderstood as primarily a memory problem affecting older adults, but brain change can involve many other cognitive functions and can also appear earlier in life depending on the type of dementia.

Communication challenges arise because people living with dementia may struggle to retain new information, making it important for care partners to simplify questions, provide visual cues and offer structured choices rather than open-ended requests.

Care partners often experience burnout because most dementia support is provided by unpaid family members who receive little training or preparation for the emotional and practical demands of caregiving.

Snow encourages replacing the term “caregiver” with “care partner,” emphasizing that the person living with dementia remains the central decision-maker in their own life and that support should be collaborative rather than controlling.

Effective dementia care requires broader community support systems, with multiple people sharing responsibility rather than placing the entire burden on a single family member.

Senior living organizations can improve dementia support by training staff to recognize individual histories, preferences and abilities, allowing residents to continue experiencing purpose, independence and meaningful engagement even as cognitive abilities change.

QUOTES

“Man, it is never about the stuff. It’s always about the people and the memories attached to the stuff.” (Matt)

“It’s not about the dining room table. It’s about the people that sat at the dining room table. Or more importantly, the people that don’t sit at the table anymore.” (Matt)

“It’s proof that we existed. It’s proof that we mattered. It’s proof that they mattered.” (Matt)

“My advice is always don’t talk about the mess if you can see the mess.” (Matt)

“You first start off with, hey, we love you. You have to really, really stress the love.” (Matt)

“It’s all caused by trauma and loss of people that matter. And we’re trying to fill that hole with stuff.” (Matt)

“Dude, it’s an archeological deal. That’s why I love my job every day. It is an archaeological dig. I get to find out when grandma was the coolest person in the world.” (Matt)

“This is the most fascinating week of your life. It could be the most interesting week, and the most productive, and generationally changing week of your life.” (Matt)

“I can’t tell you how many families I’ve seen just breaking up, totally break up over stuff. Because of a sofa? Really? Because of a guitar?” (Matt)

“Let me summarize 300,000 hours for you. It’s never about the stuff and you can’t take it with you. And it’s all about time.” (Matt)

“You’re 80, dude. You’re borrowed time. Do we really want to spend the next three years going through pictures of you going to Acapulco in 1980 with your wife? Or do we just want to go to Acapulco one more time with your wife? Let’s go make some new memories.” (Matt)

“Just have the oldest person in the room point out one item and say, tell me a story about that item. One item, one story, it’ll change your life forever.” (Matt)

NOTES

Matt Paxton is a nationally recognized expert on downsizing, decluttering and guiding families through major life transitions. Known for his 15 years on A&E’s Hoarders and appearances on Filthy Fortunes and Legacy List, he blends compassion, storytelling and practical strategy to help families navigate change.

Paxton is founder of Clutter Cleaner, a national company specializing in estate cleanouts, downsizing and hoarding situations. The organization supports families through emotional and logistical challenges, with a growing franchise model designed to serve communities across the country.

Originally trained as an economist for the Federal Reserve, Paxton built his career after personally cleaning out family homes following multiple losses in his twenties. He has spent more than 300,000 hours in hoarded houses and plans to retire after helping one million families. His work emphasizes donation, reuse and reducing family conflict over possessions.

Clutter is never about the stuff; it represents people, memories and unresolved grief.

Letting go becomes harder with age because possessions feel like proof that we existed and proof that the people we loved mattered.

Families should approach difficult conversations with compassion, leading with love rather than criticism and aligning around a clear “finish line” such as a move to senior living.

Cleaning out a home should be treated like an archaeological dig, uncovering stories that can reshape how younger generations see their parents and grandparents.

Too many families fracture over possessions, even though “you can’t take it with you” and time is the true currency.

Instead of spending years sorting old memories, Paxton urges older adults to create new ones while they still can.

Younger generations are shifting toward experiences, reuse and secondhand goods, signaling long-term cultural change around consumption.

Senior living communities should position themselves as true hubs for storytelling and intergenerational connection, inviting younger generations in to experience the community long before a move is necessary.

QUOTES

“We take seriously our role of keeping providers informed and helping them make a difference in their work.” (Kimberly)

“The industry needs to find a way to address the discrepancy between supply and demand. There’s just not enough supply right now.” (Kimberly)

“Providers need to be careful that the tech they adopt will solve the issues they’re facing. Don’t be tempted by the latest shiny object and be sure to do due diligence.” (Kimberly)

“What I find surprising is how quickly people will believe whatever they read online if it fits into their belief system.” (Kimberly)

“A healthy dose of skepticism is critical these days.” (Kimberly)

“Our writers have to write three stories a day, five days a week. I don’t have time to read a long, drawn-out pitch before I get to what you’re actually pitching. Get to the point right away.” (Kimberly)

“If you’re going to send me something under embargo, have someone available to talk about it immediately. If you’re not ready, don’t send it.” (Kimberly)

“It’s okay to say that you can’t comment, especially on pending litigation. Even better, you can talk about initiating an internal investigation regarding an event.” (Kimberly)

“Assisted living is moving to more of a healthcare model, whether the sector wants to admit it or not.” (Kimberly)

“I told my husband I was going to quit my job of 20 years and go to work for this publication. He just about lost his mind. I knew this is what I wanted to do, and I went for it. It’s worked out great.” (Kimberly)

NOTES

Kimberly is a content editor at McKnight’s Senior Living, where she covers the business, workforce, policy and innovation shaping senior housing. With a background in journalism and public relations, she brings deep industry context and a sharp editorial lens to aging services.

McKnight’s Senior Living is one of the industry’s most trusted B2B publications, delivering news, insight and analysis for senior housing leaders nationwide. The publication recently earned a Neal Award, considered the Pulitzer Prize of business-to-business journalism.

Kimberly previously spent more than 20 years in public relations and daily journalism before joining McKnight’s in 2019, just as the pandemic reshaped senior living. Her experience on both sides of the media relationship informs her practical guidance for providers and PR teams.

The “silver wave” has arrived, with demand for senior living far outpacing new development and supply.

Assisted living is steadily shifting toward a healthcare model, including value-based care and deeper clinical integration.

Staffing challenges are evolving from pay and bonuses to culture, recognition and meaningful engagement.

AI and technology can help, but providers must avoid chasing shiny tools that don’t solve real problems.

Solo agers and the middle market represent growing populations the industry still underestimates.

Trust in media is declining, making skepticism, accuracy and transparency more critical than ever.

Successful media pitches are concise, timely and supported by immediate access to knowledgeable sources.

High-performing operators rely on data, active industry engagement and leadership that listens and communicates openly.

Season 1 of Roundtable Talk set out to challenge everything we think we know about aging and ended up reframing what’s possible across an entire lifetime.

Across more than 20 conversations, Varsity’s aging and longevity podcast brought together gerontologists, policymakers, innovators, artists, journalists, and senior living leaders who are reshaping how we live, work, and contribute as we age. From public health and technology to purpose, creativity, and community, each guest added a vital layer to a more hopeful, human-centered narrative of longevity.

The season opened with cultural icons and truth-tellers like Garrison Keillor and Mo Rocca, who reminded us that humor, curiosity, and engagement don’t fade with age—they sharpen. Terry Farrell brought a deeply personal perspective on reinvention and authenticity, while Diane Harris and Dr. Sara Zeff Geber tackled the realities of solo aging, financial longevity, and planning for independence without fear.

Leading voices in aging science and public health—including Dr. Linda Fried, Dr. Louise Aronson, Dr. Kerry Burnight, and Dr. David Katz—challenged ageism head-on, reframed frailty and wellness, and made a compelling case for focusing on health span, not just life span. Their insights made it clear that aging well isn’t accidental—it’s systemic, behavioral, and deeply connected to how we design communities and care.

Innovation emerged as a recurring theme through conversations with Rick Robinson, Laurie Orlov, Dr. Tom Kamber, and Rob Liebreich, who explored how technology—from AI to digital literacy to cognitive health tools—can support independence, connection, and dignity when designed with older adults, not just for them.

The season also spotlighted bold models for aging with purpose and belonging. Andrew Carle and Lindsey Beagley explored university-based retirement communities and lifelong learning as antidotes to isolation. Barbara Sullivan highlighted the power of grassroots villages. Bridget Weston showed how older adults are fueling entrepreneurship through mentorship, while Brian Fried proved creativity and invention have no expiration date.

Rounding out the season, industry leaders like Larry Carlson, Scott Townsley, Marvell Adams Jr., Peter Murphy Lewis, and Dr. Robyn Stone confronted the hard truths facing senior living, caregiving, workforce sustainability, and inclusion, offering both critique and optimism for what comes next.

QUOTES

“We have been fed a steady diet of inaccurate information about growing older, and that information is that it’s all decline. And the truth is in the literature that there are many things that get better as you get older. We don’t care as much what people think about us, we appreciate our connections more, and we have greater potential for problem solving.” (Dr. Burnight)

“I’ve just been amazed by, like, who would think that a book on aging would become a New York Times bestseller? I mean, that’s where people are in recognizing these 100-year lives and recognizing that the status quo is not sufficient.” (Dr. Burnight)

“There were times where I had my head down on the keyboard crying because it was so hard because I wanted to bring in all the research, but I also wanted to make it really readable. And so I just kept thinking, simplify, simplify.” (Dr. Burnight)

“When I realized that the American Psychological Association defines joy as well-being and satisfaction, it made me realize that joy isn’t this like happy, happy, you know. It’s the opposite of toxic positivity.” (Dr. Burnight)

“What they said is that happiness is often circumstantially dependent, whereas joy can exist even in challenge because it’s an inside out phenomena. And that was an ah-ha moment for me.” (Dr. Burnight)

“I don’t know any older adults who haven’t had significant challenges. That is the nature of being a human. And we’re going to have those challenges. So it isn’t that we’re going to control for everything. That’s impossible. It’s that we’re going to find a way to have joy anyway.” (Dr. Burnight)

“What the research shows us is that genetics predicts between 13% and 25% of our aging experience. So the vast majority is up to us.” (Dr. Burnight)

“One utterly suffered, and it was such a rough road, and it was really hard to be around her. And then the other one had found this ability to be content, and we couldn’t get enough of her… we watched that it is possible to walk with grief and joy.” (Dr. Burnight)

NOTES

Dr. Kerry Burnight is a nationally recognized gerontologist, author, speaker and advocate with more than three decades of experience working with older adults and families. Her work focuses on aging, joy, well-being, elder abuse prevention and redefining longevity beyond decline.

Dr. Burnight is the author of JoySpan, a New York Times bestseller that reframes aging by emphasizing joy, adaptability and meaning alongside lifespan and healthspan. She is also a co-founder of the Elder Abuse Forensic Center and a leader in research-driven aging policy and practice.

Joy is not fleeting happiness but a deeper sense of well-being that can coexist with hardship and challenge.

Genetics play a smaller role in aging outcomes than commonly believed, with most of the aging experience shaped by behavior and mindset.

Joy and well-being can be intentionally built through daily practices, much like physical health.

People who thrive in long lives consistently invest in growth, connection, adaptability and contribution.

Aging is not solely defined by decline; many cognitive, emotional and relational strengths improve with age.

Gratitude and attention shape perception, influencing both mood and social connection.

Loneliness is best addressed through proactive effort, including initiating relationships rather than waiting to be invited.

Society, policy and senior living environments must move away from infantilizing older adults and toward dignity, choice and purpose.

QUOTES

“Energy is a great way to describe what it feels like to be on a team. You know if you’re on an energized team. You know if you’re on a team that’s not so energized.” (Kathy)

“Morale is a little bit narrow, but energy permeates all parts of the culture. Morale can float in and out and you can have a bad day, but energy is what gets things done in a culture.” (Kathy)

“Poor communication is probably one of the first ones I see because we think we might be having those conversations that are necessary, but often our people aren’t hearing it or it’s not getting to them quite the right way.” (Kathy)

“When I see little cues where things aren’t being communicated or the team doesn’t feel like there’s transparency, that’s the time to start talking about how is this team working, how are we energized.” (Kathy)

“A breakdown in civility can de-energize a team. You got a bad apple on that team who’s stirring things up, or says things that are derogatory. That can quench energy on a team.” (Kathy)

“We need to be kind. Just because you see it or could say it doesn’t mean you have to say it.” (Kathy)

“There’s definitely a trickle down effect from any leader. If someone’s burned out, worn out, stressed out, maxed out, they’re not showing up as their best version of themselves.” (Kathy)

“It doesn’t take long. I often end with a two-minute meditation where everyone just breathes deep for a couple minutes because it’s so important.” (Kathy)

“If someone has a question and the answer has not readily presented itself, they’re going to create their own information. And that’s where gossip gets into an organization.” (Kathy)

“Why would someone want to work here? Why would they want to give their energy, their time, their talents? What is the draw? What is the culture?” (Kathy)

“We’ve gotten pretty good at the story we want to tell to our prospective residents, but we don’t go quite as deep with what is that story we’re telling prospective employees.” (Kathy)

“Sympathy is showing up with a casserole, but empathy is actually filling the heart. It’s saying, what do you actually need from me right now that would help you?” (Kathy)

NOTES

Kathy Parry is a corporate energy expert who helps organizations strengthen culture, communication, trust, and engagement. Her work is deeply personal, shaped by caring for her daughter Merritt who lived with mitochondrial dysfunction, which inspired Kathy’s focus on energy, purpose, empathy, and sustainable leadership.

Kathy leads a speaking and consulting practice focused on re-energizing workplace culture, particularly in senior living and care settings. Through keynotes and longer-term engagements, she helps leadership teams reduce energy drains, improve communication systems, build trust, and create recognition practices that support retention and resident experience.

Kathy describes “energy” as a more complete measure than morale because it shows up across the whole culture, from communication to resident engagement to operational performance

She offers a senior living-focused engagement called the Platinum Power Program, a six-month deep dive into culture, energy drains, and leadership systems

A major emphasis in her work is clear, concise communication, including creating boundaries and predictable channels so rumors and confusion don’t fill the gaps

She teaches a trust framework that includes brain-based concepts like the amygdala’s continual “safe or not safe” scan and how transparency and empathy reduce fear responses

She distinguishes sympathy from empathy, emphasizing practical support and asking what someone truly needs rather than assuming

She promotes daily acknowledgement and celebration as retention tools and suggests creative recognition ideas, including using AI music tools to create personalized “mementos” for standout team members

She encourages leaders to stay curious, flexible, and optimistic about change, using examples from outside senior living to illustrate adaptability

QUOTES

“As a young guy, I was always curious how things worked. Ripping things apart from a creative, constructive way, not destructive. When there was a problem, I wanted to solve it.” (Brian)

“I turned out to be this problem-solution guy. As I got older, I started realizing that everyday life is full of things you can do differently—or things that don’t exist yet.” (Brian)

“Everybody has different reasons, but I would say that just bringing something to life is something amazing.” (Brian)

“Watching people use your idea for the same reason that you came up with it is an unbelievable feeling and experience.” (Brian)

“Anybody can be an inventor. You could be a doctor, lawyer, unemployed, senior citizen, student—at some point you’re coming up with an idea. The question is, are you going to stop and work on it?” (Brian)

“Sometimes the simplest products can do well. It’s about solving a small problem that people deal with every day.” (Brian)

“Capture that idea. You can text yourself, email yourself, tell somebody—before it’s gone.” (Brian)

“Be realistic. Work on something you can call your own. Don’t just close your eyes to what’s already out there because you want to be a gazillionaire.” (Brian)

“You can get things done on a shoestring budget. I don’t care if you’re a gazillionaire or on Social Security—anything is possible.” (Brian)

“It doesn’t take much these days. You don’t need to be in a major retail store to be successful—you can sell it online, on Amazon, or at your favorite street fair.” (Brian)

“If I can do it, you can do it too. Work on things that are going to get you the return you’re looking for, whatever that may be.” (Brian)

“Take away the emotion and think from a business perspective. Work on things that make sense and will get you the return you’re looking for.” (Brian)

NOTES

Brian Fried is an accomplished inventor, author, and CEO of Inventor Smart. With more than 15 patents and two decades of experience, he’s helped countless inventors—many of them older adults—turn creative ideas into real-world products.

Inventor Smart provides education, coaching, and community for inventors at all stages of development. Through initiatives like the National Inventor Club and the Inventor Smart Community app, Brian connects and empowers innovators to bring their ideas to market.

Brian has licensed and manufactured multiple products, appeared on QVC, and authored three books on inventing. His work fosters collaboration between inventors, startups, and entrepreneurs, creating supportive spaces for idea sharing and lifelong innovation.

Curiosity and creativity sparked Brian’s journey as an inventor—he’s always been a “problem-solution guy.”

Many older adults pursue invention later in life for fun, legacy, or mental stimulation.

Success comes from evaluating ideas realistically—being sure they’re original, useful, and worth the investment.

Simple, everyday inventions can make the biggest impact and are often the most successful.

Digital tools like AI and 3D printing are revolutionizing the invention process, making it easier and more accessible.

Brian encourages aspiring inventors to “capture ideas before they’re gone” and to research thoroughly before investing.

The Inventor Smart Community app and National Inventor Club provide invaluable peer support for inventors of all ages.

Above all, Brian’s philosophy is that anyone can be an inventor—with the right mindset, patience, and perseverance.

QUOTES

“The idea was, how do we pull together everybody who is in the Agetech ecosystem or who wants to be?” (Rick)

“(Older adults) are very tech savvy compared to, say, 20 years ago. And they demand better products, better services.” (Rick)

“We realized there really isn’t a convening place, a place for everybody to come together and frankly help each other produce better products and services for the market.” (Rick)

“In this environment, we now have well over 600 companies, and we’re charging toward a thousand.” (Rick)

“Let’s take that enthusiasm and expertise and technology and apply it toward older adults. Because frankly, there’s a lot more money there, to be blunt.” (Rick)

“We are here to make aging easier for everyone.” (Rick)

“Through the pandemic, it has driven people to everything from telehealth to just using consumer digital devices and applications like they wouldn’t necessarily have before.” (Rick)

“There’s a huge deficit of caregivers. That, I think, is an area where AI coupled with embodied devices is going to solve a lot of the issues that we’re facing today.” (Rick)

NOTES

Rick Robinson is Vice President and General Manager of the Agetech Collaborative from AARP. With a background in innovation and entrepreneurship, he leads efforts to bring startups, investors, and enterprises together to shape the future of aging.

The Agetech Collaborative from AARP is a growing ecosystem of startups, corporations, investors, and testbed organizations focused on developing technology and solutions for older adults. Launched just two and a half years ago, it now connects more than 600 organizations worldwide.

The collaborative runs an accelerator program, pitch competitions, and provides mentoring and investment opportunities for startups. It also fosters connections between entrepreneurs and large enterprises, supports product testing and co-creation with older adults, and works to ensure inclusivity in innovation. 

The ecosystem is designed to make aging easier through technology, while tackling challenges such as caregiving shortages, social isolation, and healthcare access.

The collaborative exists to connect everyone in the age tech ecosystem and help bring better products and services to market.

Today’s older adults are more tech-savvy than previous generations and expect high-quality solutions tailored to their needs.

By attracting influential investors, the collaborative is shifting entrepreneurial focus toward the large, underserved market of older adults.

Aging innovation should make the technology “disappear,” allowing the experience and value to shine through.

The pandemic accelerated technology adoption among older adults, from telehealth to consumer apps, lowering barriers of concern.

Both organic networking and guided connections through account managers fuel collaboration and even acquisitions within the ecosystem.

Inclusivity is central: startups are coached to test products with diverse groups of older adults to ensure accessibility and usability.

AI and embodied devices hold promise to address pressing challenges like the caregiver shortage within the next five years.

QUOTES

“Caregivers were fighting against a negative perception, a negative narrative, a negative reputation that started before COVID but was accentuated during COVID by bad media.” (Peter)

“These people that were great caregivers don’t get the recognition that they deserve.” (Peter)

“If you put the caregiver at the front, nobody’s going to criticize a caregiver.” (Peter)

“People think of CNAs as cleaning bathrooms and changing diapers. They don’t realize how beautiful it is in the relationship that you get to make.” (Peter)

“Stories are pretty much the only thing that can change our opinion in life. Documentaries do it better because they’re long enough to show the contradictions of humankind.” (Peter)

“They just have a mechanism where they can compartmentalize and feel fulfilled making other people feel great through their acts of service.” (Peter)

“What a badge of honor if the nursing home is so great that your resident brings in the caregivers, recruits their own family.” (Peter)

“I love being forced to learn something that corrects where I was wrong.” (Peter)

“Curiosity is not just part of my personality—it’s an attribute I should strive for and that humans should strive for.” (Peter)

“Almost everything has been because of tears. There were moments where we just held each other’s hands and sobbed for minutes while the cameras kept rolling.” (Peter)

NOTES

Peter Murphy Lewis is a documentary filmmaker, storyteller, and advocate who co-created People Worth Caring About, a podcast and video series spotlighting frontline caregivers in long-term care communities across the United States.

People Worth Caring About shares authentic, heartfelt stories of caregivers working in retirement and long-term care communities. Through podcasts and a multi-part documentary series, the project elevates unsung heroes, challenges stereotypes, and helps shift the public narrative around aging and caregiving.

Peter began his career in long-term care in 2020 and later became a CNA to better understand the field. Drawing from his background in South American television, he adapted his storytelling format to senior living, resulting in a growing series now available on smart TVs nationwide. The project has expanded beyond Nebraska to states like Ohio and New Mexico, with more seasons in the works.

Peter was motivated to create the series after seeing caregivers struggle with negative perceptions of long-term care.

His grandparents’ positive experiences in a nursing home inspired him to spotlight caregivers who rarely receive recognition.

By focusing on staff instead of owners or executives, the series avoids criticism and builds empathy through authentic caregiver stories.

Filming in hospice revealed the deep, life-affirming relationships between residents and young caregivers.

Stories like Kevin calling his nursing home “my home” challenged Peter’s own assumptions about language and dignity.

Intergenerational and family-based caregiving, from Subway recruits to residents’ grandchildren, shows the community power of senior living.

Peter believes documentaries shape narratives because they’re long enough to show the contradictions of human nature.

His hope is to continue expanding the series to more states, changing perceptions of caregiving while also inspiring young people to join the field.