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This collaborative article features insights from Derek Dunham of Varsity, MaryJane Fitts of Greystone Communities and Cameron Martin of The Highlands at Wyomissing following their presentation at the LeadingAge PA Annual Conference.
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Senior living waitlists were originally designed to solve a simple problem: hold future demand until an apartment becomes available. But today’s senior living consumer journey is far more complex than simply adding a name to a list and waiting for the phone to ring.
That’s why more senior living communities are rethinking the traditional waitlist model and moving toward membership-based programs designed to create earlier engagement, stronger emotional connection and more predictable occupancy growth.
That topic was front and center during a recent presentation at the LeadingAge PA Annual Conference, where Varsity’s Derek Dunham joined MaryJane Fitts of Greystone Communities and Cameron Martin of The Highlands at Wyomissing to discuss how communities can transform passive waitlists into active membership experiences.
WHY TRADITIONAL WAITLISTS ARE FALLING SHORT
The conversation focused on a growing challenge facing senior living sales teams. Traditional waitlists often create long periods of inactivity. Prospects join, disengage and remain emotionally disconnected from the community. Sales teams spend time servicing depositors without always knowing who is truly ready to move. Meanwhile, demand for senior living continues to rise as the 80+ population grows rapidly over the next several decades.
Today’s prospects also move through the decision-making process differently than previous generations. Some are actively planning for a move within the next year. Others may be exploring options years in advance. Treating every prospect exactly the same creates friction for both sales teams and future residents.
THE HIGHLANDS AT WYOMISSING: A MEMBERSHIP MINDSET
The Highlands at Wyomissing offered a real-world case study of how communities can rethink the process. With a current waitlist of roughly 460 prospects and approximately 30 to 35 move-ins annually, the organization sees an opportunity to better align engagement with how prospects actually make decisions today.
Rather than treating every prospect the same, The Highlands is developing a tiered Future Residents Club built around different levels of readiness. The Reserve Club is designed for individuals likely to move within 18 months and includes a larger refundable deposit alongside priority benefits and incentives. The Explorer Club will focus on prospects who may still be three to five years away from moving but want to remain engaged with the community over time.
The organization also hosted focus groups with both current and future residents while developing the program. One key takeaway emerged quickly: simple was better. Prospects wanted clarity around expectations, benefits and next steps rather than overly complicated structures or processes.
BUILDING CONNECTION BEFORE MOVE-IN
The shift reflects a broader understanding of how senior living decisions are made today. Prospects don’t fall in love with floor plans or amenities. They connect emotionally to lifestyle, relationships and community identity. That’s why membership-based programs often include dining experiences, events, lifestyle access, downsizing support and financial planning guidance long before move-in occurs.
The goal is not simply to create more activity. It’s to create more meaningful engagement that shortens decision timelines, improves confidence and strengthens future occupancy pipelines. Communities also benefit operationally through clearer engagement paths, more intentional sales conversations and stronger prioritization of near-term move-ins.
The communities that win in the years ahead will be the ones that build relationships long before a move-in ever happens. Membership-based programs create that opportunity by turning future residents into active participants in community life earlier in the journey.
